Scattered Thoughts From A Maryland Cottage

Scattered Thoughts From A Maryland Cottage
The Yin and Yang of Thankfulness
Showing posts with label lovely. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lovely. Show all posts

Friday, October 30, 2009

Wife asks dangerous question....


Love and Marriage
Love and Marriage
Go Together
Like a Horse
and Carriage
Wife says to her husband "Honey, do these new pants make my legs look fat?"
Husband answers wisely "My brothers told me to never answer questions like that."
Wife says "Right answer."

Monday, October 12, 2009

Palmer - my heart is broken.....
















Palmer - my heart is broken.



I went to visit my family this weekend.

It was supposed to be fun, always is, actually it was.
We laugh, we eat, we cry, we eat, we heal,
we reminisce. We discover things we never knew
and talk about things we've shared for
many, many moons. My cousin lives in a Mayberry
type of town where everyone knows everyone in
a good sort of way. Non-intrusive but always
there if you need a ride to the ER or to share
a cup of coffee. No cell phone reception.
So when we were leaving and I retrieved
my voice mail - I had 8 calls from my husband
(did I leave a home phone number nooooooo),
apparently very upset. I called him
and he was devastated.
We live on a long 1/2 gravel 1/2 paved country road.
A town named Woodbine, MD.
Horses, sheep, donkeys, pastures and homes.
Unfortunately, cars and trucks think they can fly.
Our 7 month old puppy Palmer was in our yard
when a an SUV swerved and came across
our driveway clipping Palmer and killing him.
Never stopped. My husband ran as fast as he could,
cradled him in his arms -
he was still breathing but his neck was broken
and he died a few moments later.
John buried him by our
Annie with the help of his Dad.
I drove the 6 hour ride home trying
with all my might to hold back the tears.
It wasn't possible. The loss - my heart the loss.
My husband feels so guilty.
I'm at work today - we're trying to heal -
sorry this is so sad, but I know some
of my friends will understand
I had to have a journal
to write about my hurting heart. Love, Jennifer

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Designer Plus! Check her out!



I design my own cards and sell them. I appreciate the time involved and the creativity. So I plan to list talented artists on Etsy and other sites to let them know #1 - I think they are special #2 - Let others know I think they are special.
Special Feature:www. Pacokeco @ Etsy.com.
So pass on some good news today...
We never know when we will miss the moment to say "I love you" or "You are special" or "You made my day" or "You gave me hope" - it's so easy. I've lost several dear friends to cancer in the last few years and I've learned 2 things - how fast Life can end and how unimportant things can be. I never want to wish I had told them " I love you". I am dealing with the "C" word right now and my husband, sons, family and friends are here - filling my heart with love. God is filling my soul with peace.
P.S. You are special!

Monday, April 6, 2009

To foster or not to foster - Yes I gave my Heart.


We had our sweetie foster dog for 8 months and it flew
by - Taco - 8 years old - "temporary" - just until a family of
of 7 got back on their feet and found a new apartment.
We gave him a flea bath, we cleaned his ears, we bought him
a collar - this is not good - he's under the cover in bed every
night - we buy him a fleece coat - he's stylin' - everyone loves
him - my grown sons, our 13 year old dog, the ladies at the
bank. The phone never rings. He's our baby now (he's gray,
grizzled and 8 years old). "My dog". Then the call comes ....
he's going home. I plan to be out, I get cranky. The day arrives.
No call, they don't show. Spirits soar! A week passes.
Taco went back to his family yesterday. We did a good thing -
When he left he ran out the door to an 8 year old girl with a leash
waiting. I found out she cried the entire week he left. You see he
was a birthday gift for her 1st birthday. He followed her to the car
with his butt and tail wagging. He never looked back
- which is just the way it should be. A little girl and her doggie
in love. Happy ending. I feel good.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Creative Designers! Originals on Etsy


FONTH ON ETSY - PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO LOOK AT HER SITE AND ENJOY
ALL OF HER UNIQUE ITEMS - STRIKING COLORS - BRACELETS, NECKLACES - more- MORE - more!




Monday, October 13, 2008

New Jersey is for family, eating, visiting, relaxing, bears, and me!




Every year my cousin Linda and I drive to northern NJ to visit our cousin Ruthie. It feels like "home". From the first time we walked in the door of her gray blue shingled Victorian, we couldn't get over it. We sit on the sofa and look at each other and say " this always feels like home". Her neighbors all know her, know we're arriving, say "hello" at the corner breakfast coffee shop. We ride around and look at old houses, new stores, places our great uncle and grandfather and dads hunted and fished. At night we talk about family memories and in the morning we start all over again over fresh brewed coffee.
The time passes too quickly and we reluctantly put our bags in the back seat, hug Ruthie good-bye, always aware of her teary eyes. Did I mention she's a mush? Treasure your family... every moment. We do! I'll tell you the bear story another time...

Friday, April 11, 2008

CHILD IN POSE - NEW CARD



I MAKE CUSTOM CARDS - VERY COLORFUL - ANIMALS, VINTAGE PHOTOS, ARCHITECTURAL, BOTANICAL, ANIMALS, HOLIDAY, BIRTHDAY, THANKYOU AND CHILDREN, ETC. THIS PHOTO IS A CHILD WHO'S FATHER ALLOWED ME TO USE HER IMAGE FOR CARDS I MADE - IS SHE TOO CUTE. TGIF!!!